Never EVER Take Anything Personally
If you find that the words of others brings you down or disturbs your peace of mind, I want to remind you… never EVER take anything personally, as you are ONLY and ALWAYS feeling your own thinking.
Even though it may be tough to decipher in a heated or emotional moment, the things that others say and do to us really isn’t personal. Now you may be thinking “How is that possible Morgan, when their words or actions are directed right at me?” And I get it, I really do, because when someone is directing their “stuff” at me, I have to remind myself of the same things I’m sharing here with you.
Each of us has our own filters, with which we take life in, including our DNA, up-bringing, culture, and education, just to name a few, that create or influence the perspective or lens that we process something through.
So when someone judges you, it’s not the REAL you they’re judging, it’s their perspective of you/- which you have NO CONTROL over, no matter how much you think you do. This is why it’s so important to remember, whether it’s an insult or compliment, NO-THING that others say or do to or about you is personal.
Want to know more?
Watch the video, and you’ll get the insights and understandings you need to STOP taking what other people do and say personally.
Now I’d love to hear from you…
Do you take things personally? Does it effect your ability to make your life how you want it to be?
If you have questions about how NOT to take things personally, and have more power over outside influences in general, please leave your questions or comments below, and I will respond directly.
And, if you found these insights about how to NOT to take things personally, please share it with those you love, as I’m sure they want to know how to not take things personally from you too.
To your spirit + SUCCESS! ~ ❤ M